Ashima Kalra : Thoughts Board

Love yourself : Don’t go beyond what’s intolerable for you. Being in relationship doesn’t means you will have to keep a knife hanging around your neck. But this is what generally happens. Stop doing what you don’t want to and do whatever makes you happy. That’s the true fun in living. Learn a lesson from past affairs and get the hell out of the present: One should always learn from the mistakes made in past. Leave it, if it’s too hard to carry and just move ahead. No regrets too please. If things move normally, it’s good, If not then let it be and learn from the experience. Concentrate on what’s really important: Prioritize in life. Put those things on top, that matters to you and make it work for you. Leave those things aside that makes you sad. Focus on the results and not mere transactions: Don’t just keep yourself busy but focus on the deliverables. Though keeping yourself busy is the easiest thing one can do but removing complications is possible only if y...

In India, as girls, we are never expected to earn as much for the survival or luxury. Though few of us do work for necessity but that’s only when the family is in big cash crunch else there’s no such motivation for girls to earn. What do we all need to maintain a good lifestyle? Great food A good/big house to live Car to drive Along with cash rich pocket to be able to explore different places in the city and the world! All this is expected to be well maintained by the guys to whom the girls are supposed to get married. And they do so too. Getting a rich & handsome guy is the only expectations of girls of our society so that they can have a stable life forever! So does this mean, girls should never aim towards earning huge to be able to buy everything on their own? & to live an independent life? However, this thought has captured a good space in my head in such a way that I can’t just go away of it! Fortunately or unfortunately, I have always been accompanied by ...

Yea, I truly agree. If the techniques of doing better than others and getting successful is not within you, trust me, no matter how expensive you study, you can never create wonders in life. Success comes from within. You’re simplicity; attitude, abilities and efforts do it all.  Anyone who learns from their mistakes comes ahead with the best personality. This is trait of simplicity and success subsequently.

Warren Buffet said, “There will never be a better you than you” since you don’t have any replicas. That’s a good enough reason to love yourself. Isn’t it? But more than 90% of the world has decided to stay away of this fact. We screw our lives: By not trusting ourselves and trusting others. By loving those who often don’t love us back. By spending on those who don’t value our efforts. By not realizing our own worth. Basically, we do everything for those who never appreciate us. And then we cry and feel bad about how we ruined our lives! On the contrary, if we realize our real worth and start believing on ourselves, there is nothing in the world that can spoil our happiness as the real happiness is within. We have to understand one thing that no matter what you do, you cannot make everyone around you happy so better stop trying to do that and stay happy on your own. Once you decide to love yourself, you can feel a positive aura a...

It’s good to have someone as inspiration but it’s bad if you are following them without using your brains. In order to get good results in any field, one has to think beyond.

“ Let’s Get Social ” .. The three words have been used hell lot times all around the web to spread awareness and importance of social media. Still its being used here again, simply to precise on the same intend again. The Mantra works....seriously...!   Getting social here simply means getting more and more associated within your own network by the way of Content. In social media, Content works big time. In order to popularizing yourself or your brand, three things work: Content – Sharing – Involving Content: Anything you find interesting and thought provoking. Sharing: Publish them on your page or you wall. Let people see and get influenced. Keep sharing one after the other. Involve: Once shared, try to extract your audience’s thoughts by keeping them involved. Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and many more like such are amazing platform that, over a period of time, can help you in building your brand, may be in the form of your venture or your...

We usually regret to everything that did made us smile earlier but later end up hurting us...but that should not be the case. One needs to be positive in all approach. If you had the courage to be happy...be strong enough to upfront the consequences as well...